Sexual Priming Experiment: A Threesome I Couldn’t Have

We were standing there, the three of us, horny as fuck, just waiting for it to happen. Each of the girls open to it, damp underneath (they confessed later), me standing there plotting a way to close the deal. If only these poor girls at school knew the shit I did to them on a regular basis. Hahaha…

Credit where credit’s due, I first heard about sexual priming from Ratisse right here on this blog, who read some scientific study about it. There you go.

Ratisse explains it as a way to gauge where you are in your seduction, the girl is either going to fuck you or she isn’t, and this can be used to tell which. He explained it as follows:

The Technique

Basically, sexual priming is maintaining the frame that:

If you continue doing (something she’s already doing that’s “turning you on”) I’m going to (do something to escalate towards sex).

Here’s an example of what you’d say to your target:

If you continue turning me on I’m going to make out with you.

If you keep making out with me I’m going to take you to the bathroom and jerk off for you.

or if she’s ready to be fucked:

If you keep making out with me I’m going to take you to the bathroom and fuck you.

There are different ways your target will react:

Active Acceptance of your frame

Passive Acceptance of your frame

Active Denial of your frame

An example of her passively accepting your frame would be her giggling.

An example of her actively accepting your frame would be her saying “What are you waiting for?”

An example of her actively denying your frame would be her saying “I don’t want to make out with you.”

If she accepts the frame, you can move forward.

If she denies the frame, you can either build more comfort and attraction or find another target, depending on how you want to invest your time.

- Ratisse

Anyway, the way the study went for the report was they showed people pictures of normal things, then they showed them pictures of sex. Afterwords they measured the increase in desire for sex in the people who saw the trigger pictures. They concluded that the desire to have sex can be triggered by an outside stimulus.

I’ve been experimenting with it at school for the last few weeks and I’ve had varying results, one of which would have resulted in a threesome had it not been for logistics. I did not use it the exact way Ratisse did. I just talked about sex in a way that caused the girls to imagine themselves having sex or me having sex.

Here’s what happened that day:

It started early on in the day when I turned the conversation sexual (as is my usual m.o.). I was talking with SchoolGirl (whom I’d already closed, the reports around here somewhere) and our mutual friend Pornstar (an inside joke).

Schoolgirl and I were talking to Pornstar about our experiences and she was asking tons of questions as she is less experienced but still not a virgin. The conversation continued off and on at various points throughout the day.

By the time school was letting out, we had made plans to hang out and keep talking. Unfortunately, we were confined to the parking garage since I live with my g/f and they still live with their parents.

The conversation continued about sex until Pornstar said she was extremely horny. Schoolgirl said she was too and I admitted the same. Then they both stood around, waiting for something to happen. Had there been a place to fuck, (you can’t have a threesome in a car, it was too cold and neither of us could afford a to get a room) I would have been able to escalate them both, instead, I went home and fucked my girlfriend twice and jerked off. The other two drove home together, still talking about sex. Pornstar was dropped off, Schoolgirl went home and neither of them got any. Needless to say that since then then I’ve been touching them in sexual ways and teasing them, egging them on.

Schoolgirl and I are down for a threesome with Pornstar, and Pornstar admitted to Schoolgirl she would do it to. Unfortunately this won’t happen until we find a place to fuck. Schoolgirl and I are much more touchy-feely with Pornstar since then, so it’s only a matter of time until the deal is sealed.

So in a nut shell:

- Talking about sex long enough,

- Getting her to imagine doing those things and

- Being accepting and non-judgmental of her questions, experiences and desires

will get her rearin’ to go.

Oh, and having a co-conspirator too will help.

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