The Physics of Approaching A Girl

In any given moment as we go about how daily lives, we should be noting whether or not there there are any hot women in our field of vision. This usually is the easy part, as most guys usually have more trouble peeling their eyes AWAY from hot girls. So, if we see any, then we can go talk to her.

To go talk to her, we need to immediately change our walking path so that it ‘collides’ with hers. I’m not say we should physically bump into the woman, rather that our walking path needs to very closely intersect or run closely parallel with hers.

We both need to intersect at a very close point in space / time. If they don’t, then you can greet her all you’d like, but she’ll be too far away to hear you. Likewise, if you try to open her after you’re too close, you may not be giving her enough to time evaluate your image/presentation to see if you’re the kind of guy she might be interested in. In these cases, you and woman intersected at a less-than-favorable point int space / time.

One of our guys described it as kind of like using the “Z-target” function from Zelda: Ocarnia of Time. You “Z-target” a the girl you want to approach, then you start moving towards her. Another one of our guys likened it to bumper cars. In bumper cars, we have fun by intersecting with someone else’s space/time location in an outgoing, friendly way.

If there are no hot women in our field of vision, then we need to change our field of vision by checking to the left, right and behind by slowly turning around 360 degrees. Also, if applicable, check up and down – this works in situations such as in a multi-floor mall where you can easily see the foot traffic above and below.

If there are still no hot women, then we can ask ourselves, “Where can I go that I think will have hot women?” We can then start heading there while continuing to check our surroundings. All the while, we keep our eyes, ears (and noses?) open for hot women (the senses of taste and touch we save for after we’ve Identified one that’s into us.)

As with all of dating advice for men, we insist that THE most important aspect in taking control of and improving your chances with women and dating is building your own lived experiences by meeting more women. This is something only you can do, and no one else can ever teach you about. Getting up, getting out and meeting tons of women is the absolute fundamental basic building block to all happiness and success with dating – thus, best learn how to do it often. Learning how to do it ‘right’ or even effectively / efficiently can come later… Most important thing is that it’s done often with the frame of constantly improve by increments every single time. (watch this video to learn more about about meeting lots of women)