How To Stop Being A Keyboard Jockey



Keyboard jockeying – I define it as the act of reading, watching and otherwise consuming media about sex and dating without actually taking action.
I know few quicker ways for guys to destroy their chances for a successful dating and sex life on such a massive scale.
As a rough guideline, we recommend at least a ratio of 4:1 for taking action to consuming advice about dating, relating, women, sex, pick up and that whole aspect of man life. The more action the better.
That means for at least every hour spent meeting women or going on dates with them, you can permit yourself 15 minutes of reading / watching information related to improving your dating life and / or listening to random dudes’ random unsolicited opinions on how to get chicks.
How To Mortally Combat Information Overload
As great and fun as it may be to soak in all the dating knowledge and stories available today, it can become a burden rather than a boon if kept in a vacuum.
Data acquisition mode (as opposed to ACTION MODE) can lead to endless keyboard jockeying on intarweb forums and blogs. Avoid ending up as the guy who goes out and ends up derps around with other dudes the whole time talking about ‘game,’ but never actually talking to women (hint: If you can talk to women, you don’t need uber ‘game’ or pickup skills).
Of course, I’m warning you about this because these were mistakes I personally never made… Completely innocent over here! I never fell into the old keyboard jockeying trap when I got started, nope…
Always be cautious about the media you’re consuming (including this very article!). Remember to always put the dating advice you hear through a trial by fire in the real world, by talking to real girls. The last thing we want is for you to spend all day reading through our blog saying how cool we are (everyone does that, right?) and then never getting up, getting out and testing things for yourself to improve your own life.
It’s a delicate balance. If you’re like me (and I’m completely unbiased when it comes to my positive opinions of myself) then you really like the fire we spit here and think it would improve the dating and sex lives of the vast majority of guys out there.
The key is to also realize that the most fundamental aspect of all of our advice to take action and find your own paths – even if that means learning through your own lived experience that our advice on this whole dating thing isn’t quite right for you.
As long as you get up, get out and take action to improve your own dating life, then all is well.
So, go ahead and do it.
Get up, get out, go meet more women, come back, check out a new article, head out again, give the information a try to see if it works for you, come back, write up your thoughts and experiences from your recent outings and repeat the process.
Always keep the emphasis on action.


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