Being mysterious with women has a huge advantage over spilling your guts out - It will repel gold-diggers and users from your life, keeping your wallet and sanity safe.
Some
guys have pointed out that trying to be mysterious with women can backfire and ruin their chances
with some girls.
That’s
absolutely true, and we think that’s a GOOD THING.
There’s
an important component to being a mystery that often gets overlooked:
Being Mysterious Will Repel Certain
Women
It will repel certain
types of women, and this works out to your advantage.
Not every woman is
going to be good for every guy. In some cases, repulsing a certain type of girl
actually benefits the guy more than if he had “gotten” her.
How so?
Well,
when you repulse gold-diggers, crazies, drama queens and other women with
agendas, you’re protecting yourself. Being mysterious with women tends
to weed out women who aren’t actually into YOU, as a man, but are into your
(potential) money, your career, your living situation, your car, your contacts,
your friends, etc.
If info on those
aspects of your lifestyle is really important to her, then keeping them a
secret will cause her to tip her hand fairly quickly.
Girls whose main agenda
and requirement for talking to a guy is how much money he earns will get mighty
pissed when you don’t give her a straight answer on the topic. Not
vomiting out personal information about our jobs tends to make gold-diggers’
faces contort in a self-righteous anger of entitlement. And that’s great,
because not only have we Identified a woman as being a gold-digger, we’ve also
repelled her from weaseling her way into our life.
Another Way Being Mysterious With Women
Keeps Your Wallet Safe
An additional bonus to
playing the Mystery card fast and furiously with women relates to the idea that
locking doors doesn’t keep thieves out; it simply keeps honest people honest.
Keeping the details
about your finances, job, contacts and such under wraps denies her the
opportunity to start gunning for free meals, simply because she doesn’t know
that you can provide them.
Clever (and honest)
girls know that if she’s with you on a long enough timeline, she’s going to
find out all about you on her own anyway – thus, there’s no need for you to go
blabbing out details that don’t work well in your favor, nor is there any need for
her to be earning access that kind of information on early dates.
The
simple fact is, not all girls will respond positively to being mysterious. And
it takes practice to find the fine line between being mysterious + funny vs.
being weird. The best way to remedy that is to start to meet more women every single day while focusing on how
you can improve.
In
the experience of myself and the guys here – the girls who respond the best to
it tend to be women of high value, exceptional beauty and great accomplishment
who honestly like us as men.
“Trying to get
everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity.”
-Colin
Powell
If you’re able to
accept the reality that not every woman will like you when you’re mysterious
with them – or even better, simply accept the reality that not every woman will
like you, PERIOD – then glide forward bearing your swirling mantle of intrigue.
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