Will a Good Look Increase Your Chances at Dating?


Over and over people tend to stress a common believe, which is often even considered a fact: A good look will give you better chances at dating and ease flirting. Of course, it sounds pretty logic and there should be a grain of truth in it. Should it? Let’s have a closer look and determine the exact conditions when this really holds true (if it does – actually!).



First, let’s consider the pros: we all want a good looking partner and never have ever dreamed of an ugly partner. If we make the simple assumption that flirting or even dating is the first step towards a new relationship we can conclude that the better you look the better are your chances. This is of course true also for short-term flirts and adventures :-)
So, what other pros can we find for our assumption Good look – better chances at dating? Actually, this seems to be the primary and only argument in favor of the good look – better flirting theory. So let’s switch to the cons.
The cons are various. Look out: nobody can change the fact that a good look will attract the attention towards you. That is a good start for a flirt but what will happen thereafter? Yes, right, you have to prove that you really deserve this attention and dating is already the next step. If you jerk around now, there will be no flirt, nor a date. The good look will not do this for you, this card has already been played. Now you have to prove your personality.
There is another con, too. It is not that usual “inner values”-argument. If you think a little bit more about that good look – better dating chances argument you will find that even very good looking people will always find their “master”. Means: someone is always looking even better. But yet, people live in relationships, there are couples which are happy with each other and do not have to fear the competition of “better looking” people. If you take a closer look, you will see a lot of people not having such a good look – but still, they are flirting and dating and have quite a success! (Just go out on the street and watch them!).
So what does them make successful at dating? Well, they just stick to the rules and behave according to what we advice you in our general dating tips. That’s the main point.
But let’s get back to the good look. Of course, we cannot deny that a good look matters when it comes to dating and relationships. But in a different way: be well groomed, trimmed and cultivated. Make sure:
* wear proper clothing (not necessarily fashionable, nor expensive, but it should be clean and well maintained)
* smell well, use after shave and deodorant
* keep your house clean
* make some sport; keep you in a good physical shape
Of course, women have preferences. My neighbor for example always found blond men with blue eyes very interesting. But she has fallen in love with a man with brown hair and brown eyes. Just because the chemistry between them is right and it does not matter anymore if he is blond or not!
We can even generalize this and will find that it is completely indifferent if you have

  • A snook
  • a certain eye color or not
  • a scar
  • glasses
  • long hair or baldness
    What you have to be is cultivated and trimmed. Take care of yourself and girls will start caring for you! Have fun at dating!

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