Maybe you consider love poems somewhat old-fashioned or outdated, but you are missing some point. Love poems exist (at least!) since man learned to write, they survived and I bet they always will. Love might be mortal in many cases, but a good love poem never dies. So what exactly is a love poem and how to use it for dating?
Love poems are poems in which one confesses his love for his beloved. Moreover, couples can also write love poems for each other or even together. Thus, a love poem is basically something very personal and nothing embarrassing. Most women enjoy a love poem – even if it contains only of a few paragraphs. What it is important is that the beloved one can feel that the writer put his (or her!) feelings into the words.
What makes a good love poem?
The best way write a love poem is to get yourself a large piece of paper and start making notes about what makes your love special to you and what do you like best at her (or him!). This might be
If you are writing a love poem for a man pick up some more masculine qualities and stress them. Cheerfulness is not the first choice here, but if he is a jovial person who cheers you up… go for it!
Actually all characteristics you really like will do, but avoid stressing qualities your beloved does not like about her/him. That wouldn’t turn out best and as you love your beloved you will find enough other characteristics to mention, right?
Actually all characteristics you really like will do, but avoid stressing qualities your beloved does not like about her/him. That wouldn’t turn out best and as you love your beloved you will find enough other characteristics to mention, right?
Write a love Poem!
Just write everything at once, like a brain storming. The next step is to look at the points and try to answer yourself the question why do you like the let’s say, Hair so well? Finally you will merge these two points in your very own love poem:
Example: Your hair is golden and lights up my life – your smile embeds me like a warm summer wind.
Yes, you are right. That does not sound like art at all and will never make it into any encyclopedia of great poems. But is just does not have to! All this poem has to prove is what do you feel for your beloved and how tender you think of her (him!). It has to prove your personal attachment to your beloved and how much you care and why. A love poem should come from your heart.
However, play a little bit around with the poem and modify it. After some time you will find a rhythm and fitting rhymes. It will improve. But once again, do not overdo it! If writing is not your strength focus on the content and don’t be shy. The grammar and the quality of the rhymes for such a personal love poem are really not that essential.
And if you do not feel confident at all: there are virtually myriads of love poems out there. Select one you really like and think will fit best your feelings for your beloved. Do not grab the next available love poem, nor just one due to the reputation of the poet (you do not have to cite Shakespeare if you find a touching and well fitting love poem from an unknown writer!). What matters here is to select the right poem. That should not be underestimated. As a rule of thumb a bad written, but self-made and honest love poem will be more appreciated than a bad selected love poem no matter how famous the author is.
But we are not finished yet. Now write a short (or not so short) dedication for your beloved as an introduction to the poem. Explain why you selected this very poem and why does it express your feelings for your beloved. Then add the poem, write the authors name under the title of the poem and add your own signature under the poem, something like
Poem Title
By Author
By Author
Poem here
With true love, your John
That will give the poem a very personal touch and make it unique to your beloved. However, a self-written love poem is still to be preferred. But how to use it for dating? Well, just give it a try! Sending your dating partner a love poem is not a bad way to reveal your feelings and affection and the success can be overwhelming!
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