10 Ways To Get His Attention Back

I came across the post over at loveawake.com that talked about some of the things that really happen in relationships.

Women, I’ve observed, have the tendency to feel insecure when their men become less and less “actively involved” in the relationship. Personally, I do feel somewhat jealous of the things that take his attention away from me or the relationship.

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The article clarified this occurence for me a bit and I’m quite relieved that there’s some sense to why men act the way they act at a certain period in the relationship.

“Usually, when a guy starts switching his attention away from the relationship to things like work or hobbies it is because he feels secure in his relationship. Most guys have the “if it’s not broken, then don’t fix it” attitude.” 

That should pacify us, women, don’t you agree? Now, instead of “worrying” about what’s wrong [we’ve already established that, sometimes, there’s no problem at all] it’s more productive to just work on getting, at least, a considerable amount of his attention back.

Here are 10 suggestions:

First, you may want to spice up the relationship in the bedroom.
You may want to stop by the office just to say “Hi”.
Start dressing sexier.
You will also start wanting to be less available.
Another way to get his attention is teasing plainly.
Not only should you dress sexier, but also you should walk and talk with confidence.
Not only should you spice up the bedroom with a new routine, but you will also want to work on your foreplay.
Start doing things just for him.
What will really get his attention is if you backed off the whole baby or marriage conversation.
Bluntly, ask about the relationship.
Pretty straight forward, eh?

I’m curious, though. Do you guys think that these things will work? Or do they just provide an “easy fix”?

I suggest you head on over and read the post for a more extensive explanation on each point. I learned a thing or two by doing just that.

PS

I have to say… you may think #4 is a good idea from that whole reverse psycology thing. The way I see it, women make things complicated and guys tend to try to simplify things. That’s where all the problems stem from. Sure spice things up in the bedroom, but then why would you go and be less available. Some would call it being subtle, I would call it confusing.