Because it seems so many guys want quick results from dating advice, this topic doesn’t get quite� the attention it deserves. But positive, reinforcing inner game probably overwhelms nearly all social anxieties and in my mind always trumps the skill sets that can help jump start your dating life immediately.
At the same time, I don’t think inner game issues and skill sets that get you initiating social interactions immediately are mutually exclusive. A lot of time, guys need instant gratification to jump start their game. Strong inner game explains why naturals can’t really tell you what they do around people, and women in particular. It just seems to “happen” they are consistently good in social situations. Likewise, guys with low self esteem but technical knowledge can sometime yield impressive results. But they plateau quickly. The reason being there is only so high a ceiling for guys with inner game issues and it is necessary for them to learn how to get game.
The relationship you have with yourself is sub communicated constantly across all forms of communication. And it follows, that because women have highly tuned “antennae” in regards to intuition and feelings, they are able to read you like an x ray. They see inside you. Therefore, if your skill sets and technical knowledge is strong, (ie approach, open, attract, etc) but you are sub communicating low value, she’ll sense the in congruence and you will fail.
That being the case, I always believe you should be working toward creating a positive lifestyle based on those things that satisfy you and can accomplish. Once a particular goal is achieved, you constantly expand by finding new goals and levels to attain. Women and your interaction with them is only a part of a complete life, not the part…
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