Guys with cash generally have no game. When I say “game”, I mean the ability to create rapport based solely on relating to another human being based on something other than income, material assets, or financial accomplishments.
Success is not to be envied or marginalized. But used as the single dimension to relate to women is a huge mistake. The kind of women attracted only by money rarely satisfy the interpersonal needs of the men involved with them. It’s generally a shallow vicious cycle of the “ass to cash” paradigm where the longevity of the relationship is determined by the money spent.
A better way is to create value in your personality by learning to connect what you’re passionate about and expressing it. After you approach, and open, the attraction and rapport stages are determined by revealing credible information about yourself. After you learn the template you can use the training wheels I provide, but real content is always king.
A true connection is based on multiple dimensions of emotional needs being met and contained by the other party. The more components of yourself you are in touch with and can express determines the quality of your relationships both with others but most importantly with yourself.
I may be having a Dr. Phil moment here but what I see with a lot of guys is that they are only concerned with learning the skill set to open, attract and date women. What they find out later is that this in itself is quite empty and then they have to reassess their relationship goals to accommodate the desire to experience a full relationship.
The Dating Matrix doesn’t stop by at teaching you the ability to approach women and succeed in getting a date. It goes a step or two further by teaching you the skills to manage an adult relationship with the women or woman you desire..
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