Why do people eat
at McDonald’s on a consistent basis when they know it is unhealthy?
Why do
people smoke cigarettes knowing they are drastically increasing their risk of
all kinds of deadly diseases?
Why do
people drink beer to excess knowing they will have a horrible hangover the next
day?
And why
do married, powerful men hire hookers when they know the consequences of
getting caught can be the destruction of their careers?
The
answer to each one of these is simple: because it feels good in the moment.
McDonald’s tastes good in the moment, cigarettes feel good in the moment, beer
gives you a pleasant buzz in the moment, and hookers make them feel good in the
moment in
a way wives can’t or won’t.
There’s
rarely any great emotional angst behind these decisions, despite what TV
psychoanalysts would have you believe. Frank Gifford didn’t cheat on Kathy Lee
because of some deep seated, long ago resentment for his mother—he did it
because a pair of 42 DD’s was waved in his face, and 42 DD feel good. Really good.
Why Do Women Go After Bad Boys And Dysfunctional Guys?
Because
by their behavior they make them feel good in the moment,
creating that narcotic high of chemistry. Nice guys don’t do that, so women are
not attracted to them.
Now,
a lot of the stuff I just mentioned can have long term consequences, and it is
not out of the realm of possibility to use self imposed
discipline to avoid these things.
However, it is important to understand that people make decisions in
the moment and for the long term simply because someone or
something made them feel it (the whole marriage industry is based on this). So,
what you want to do is be the guy who makes people, especially
women, feel good in the moment.
If
you’re the guy who makes people laugh,
always has a funny story to tell, you’re genuinely interested in them, and
you’ve mastered behavior that makes women feel chemistry, people will want to be around you.
When
people want to be around you, good things come your way. More people want to hang around you,
and the right people can bring you opportunity, and are happy to if you make
them feel good.
When
you make women feel good, you’re always their first choice because so many men make so many
women feel so bad. Don’t overcomplicate this very
important aspect of persuasion and influence: make people feel
good in the moment, and they’ll make good decisions regarding you.
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