Learn how to know if she is 'The One' or just another one. And if she is 'The One' then celebrate. Your life is about to become so much more Amazing...
So,
you’ve met a good girl and now you want to know how to
know if she is ‘The One’ or not, yeah?
Great! I’ll explain
everything right now.
When you know how to
know if she is ‘The One’ you can feel excited knowing how much more amazing and
incredible your life will be with such a wonderful woman by your side.
On to the good stuff…
The first signs that
she is ‘The One’ is…
Is she Keanu Reeves or
Jet Li? If she’s neither of them, then I’m sorry… She is not ‘The One.’
Wait.
Ohhhh. You mean that ‘The One.’ As in, your Total Ten, the
perfect woman for you ‘The One,’ not the ultimate kung-fu savior of humankind
‘The One.’
Okay, got it. Cool,
that actually happens to be our specialty.
How To Know If She Is ‘The One’ Perfect
Woman For You
Lots
of dating
advice for men out there will give you lists of qualities to
look for in ‘The One.’ Generally speaking though, these lists are little more
than a fantasy wishlist of physical characteristics guys want in their women,
rarely ever touching the topic of her core Attitude and Character.
In
our seminars we here at DateMasters spend days training you how to understand a
woman’s true nature in addition to demanding that you become your own authority when it comes to women and
dating. That means you always test dating advice out before
believing in it and to base your decisions on your own lived
experiences. With this in mind, here’s the core principle we recommend when
you’re wondering “Is she The One, or not?”
Observe
her behavior in a variety of situations and over a long period of time. A great girl
will remain great. A bad girl will eventually slip up and show you her red
flags. Her behavior is the key.
Some
guys might say, “But wait! What about her looks!?” Of course her physical
features are important… In fact, we’re simply assuming she’s hot because
we NEVER recommend guys date women to whom they aren’t attracted to. We
recommend when guys go out to meet women, they only talk to women who (they
think) are sexy.
Mutual attraction is
the basis for any and all romantic and/or sexual interaction. Without that,
nothing begins.
How To Know If She Is The One: Pay
Attention!
So back to observing
her behavior. We recommend guys carefully (yet casually and non-judgmentally)
observe her behavior. Listen when she says something because you can be sure
that the Red Flag that you miss will be the one that comes back to bite you in
the ass.
Here are some
questions to consider (silently, to yourself) as you date this woman who has
potential to be ‘The One’:
·
When
you go out on a date, does she offer to pitch in?
·
Does
she pay?
·
Does
she expect you to pay for everything?
·
Does
she give you gifts?
·
Plan
dates?
·
How
does she treat other people? (You can be sure that how she treats other people
will be how she’ll eventually treat you as well on a long enough time line.)
·
Is
she friendly and respect to waiters, waitresses and clerks?
·
Does
she talk trash about people behind their backs?
·
How’s
her drive, her ambition, her skills?
·
Is
she still in contact in with any ex-boyfriends?
·
Any
guys she’s still seeing (even as ‘just friends’) lurking in the background?
·
Can
she make you laugh?
·
What
is she bringing to the table besides her good looks?
·
Does
she know kung-fu? And is she leading humanity’s rebellion to freedom? Wait a
sec. That’s for the other ‘The One.’ Never mind.
Date Her A Long Time Before Deciding If
She Is ‘The One’ Or Not
In order to find out
this kind of information about her, we recommend you date her for months and
possibly even years before letting her make you her boyfriend. Then date her
exclusively for at least a couple more years before even considering marriage
or moving in together.
As
time goes on and you find yourselves in more and more varied situations, you
can carefully observe her behavior, the way she acts and her attitude while
always asking yourself, “Would my ‘The One’ act this
way?”
Also,
ask yourself this – “If her behavior didn’t change at all over the next 50
years, could I accept that?” Because we can never assume
anyone in our lives will change their behavior. For as often as we may want it
to be, we certainly can’t make people change. (The only person we can ever
truly change is ourselves, but that’s a topic for another day.)
So
if there’s something in her behavior that bothers you, let me warn you right
now: She’s never gonna change. If that’s a problem for you, then you should
probably move on and go Meet More Women.
If it’s not a problem,
and you’ve been observing her in variety of situations over the course of
years, then hey, maybe you’ve found The One! Remember to always keep your wits
about you and take everything very, very slowly. Moving too fast is the quick route
to having half your assets taken, your heart-broken and your bones broken if
she’s a kung-fu master. This is even more true with beautiful women. Nothing
makes a guy lose all rational judgement and ability to see character flaws in a
person like a sexy woman (unless he’s religiously read up on this site and
knows exactly how to keep his wallet, emotions and sanity safe).
And if she is ‘The
One’ then you can be certain that she won’t mind moving slow with you. Heck,
she’ll be thrilled and grateful for every date and ever chance she has to be
with you – that’s the kind of behavior we’re looking in a woman.
In
fact, her wanting to move fast with you into big commitment, well, that’s
a Red Flag). And her wanting to move fast with you by using her gravity defying
acrobatics to help you battle hundreds of martial artists simultaneously means
you’ve found the other kind of ‘The One.’
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