Losing Him

When that event happens, you will feel empty. You will feel lost. You will feel scared. You will feel insecure.


I’m not talking about a break up. A break up can’t hold a candle to it. A break up is nothing compared to it.

I’m talking about not seeing him again. Ever. Even if you try your hardest. There’s no chance of bumping into him. No anonymous calls or sms. Nothing. You’ll never hear from him ever again.

Losing him. A period to a sentence. A life lived without his existence. Gone. Nada. Kaput.

Yea, you lost him but you do have memories.

I lost my father recently. The one man I know who loves me unconditionally. The one man who accepts me. And, I’d like to think, the one man whose eyes lit up the first time he gazed upon me — holding me in his arms — cuz he knew he’ll love me forever.

This loss caused me to fear a bit. To ask questions. To wonder if I’ll ever find a man who would want to spend the rest of his life loving me.

Meanwhile, all I can do is hope. Trust that if it’s my fate to find such a man then it’ll come to pass.

With sadness, I think about my loss. With joyful anticipation, I look forward to the man who will show me that such a love, though not perfect, is still possible.



A Girl’s Guide to Geek Guys

When you’ve finally dated your fill of bad boys and have had enough of the hunks who mistreat you or keep you hanging on a string with a handful of other women, where do you think you should turn next?

What about a Geek?

Someone has taken the time to put together a complete manual on how to meet a geek, where to meet them, what to feed them and how to care for them.

To be honest, it doesn’t sound like a half bad deal!

Why Geek Dudes Rule

They are generally available.
Other women will tend not to steal them.
They can fix things.
Your parents will love them.
They’re smart.
Now do you know where to find them?  I do!

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