If you don’t know what you want you will never get what you want. Lots of people teach the importance of knowing what you want in a partner, making a list of non-negotiables, finding someone with similar interests, religion, political beliefs… But what happens once you find them?
Before you even think about what it is you want in a partner, consider what it is you will do with this perfect partner. More important than what you want in a partner, is knowing where you are in your life and what type of relationship you are looking to build. Do you want friendship? Committed relationship? Are you looking to be married in two years? Even knowing the answer to this question could determine what you are looking for in a partner.
How can you find what you are looking for if you don’t even know what that is? You are not only setting yourself up for unmet expectations and disappointments, but you are setting up any potential partners as well. When you are dealing with matters of the heart, being upfront and honest is important, but also being responsible enough to figure out what it is you’re looking for before entering the dating scene, all loaded gun…
If you’ve never given any thought, then now is your chance. Take time to evaluate what it is that you want, and what your life has room for right now, then don’t be shy, make sure you are communicating this with any potential partner comes along. Happy Dating!
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